Reconnecting Through Life Stories: The Rewards of Interviewing My Dad

When I first set out to write my parents' biographies and turn them into a cool coffee table book, I had a pretty clear goal in mind: I wanted to create a lasting record so their stories wouldn't be forgotten. But honestly, I didn't realize how much the process itself would become the best part.

My dad jumped at this idea from day one. These bi-weekly video calls with my brothers have turned into a total cornerstone of our schedule. It’s way more than just gathering facts for a book; it’s a shared experience that’s bringing the 3 of us closer to him than ever.

As we dive into his past, we’re not just hearing about old dates and places. We’re getting a front-row seat to his decision-making process, and how he navigated life while starting our family. He’s sharing the stories, but also the moments of doubt and the "why" behind the big moves—like how we eventually landed in Ann Arbor. It’s giving us a chance to see him as a whole person, not just the guy who raised us.

These interviews have opened the door to conversations we probably never would’ve had otherwise. We’re always amazed by his endless supply of stories, reminiscing about things we barely remembered, and sometimes just sitting in awe of how detailed his memory is, down to the smallest detail.

The project has also been an awesome way for my brothers and me to bond. Even though we’re spread out across the country, we’re collaborating on questions and comparing notes after every call. It’s brought a new energy to our relationship, all centered around honoring Dad’s journey.

I’m so grateful we started this. It’s not just about the final book anymore; it’s about the time we’re spending together and the perspective we’re gaining. If you’ve ever thought about doing something like this with your folks, just do it. It’s a total game-changer for the whole family.